Here’s the deal:

We are gathering an intimate group of wise women to go on a destination retreat to lovely Oceanside, CA (just north of San Diego) to discover the TRUTH about YOUR LIFE and WHAT'S NEXT….the magic, the mess, and more.

» We will CLEAR OUT any old lingering beliefs that are keeping you stuck. (Let's smash that inner glass ceiling once and for all, shall we?)

» We will DREAM QUEST and PLEASURE DIG to get inspired for the next chapter.

» We will BE FRANK about disappointments, sexuality, pleasure, impostor syndrome, feeling selfish, and connect with our true desires to create an inspired action plan.

Oh – and there’s excursions, shopping, cocktails, and mocktails too : )

PLUS THREE BONUS COACHING SALONS:

Starting in September we'll gather for an optional monthly online Coaching Salon where we can get to know each other better and start setting the stage for some deep transformational conversations. Then we'll meet one more time after we get back to integrate and cement in the learning and stay connected.

WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT

No matter how many books you buy or workshops you go to…it seems like your old patterns are right there waiting for you.

No matter how many zeros are on the left side of the decimal point…you still feel scarcity.

No matter how many times people tell you you’re gorgeous…you just can’t quite believe them.

You would never in a million years go back to your teens or twenties – there was enough confusion and heartbreak there the first time – but you wouldn’t mind getting back some of your:

• Confidence
• Sex Appeal
• Life Force
• Enthusiasm
• Late Night Talks about Everything
• FUN!

The feeling that YOU are SPECIAL and that you are destined for an extraordinary life is not the exclusive province of the young. And it’s never, ever too late to create the life of your dreams and make the contribution you know the world needs from you.

We have some amazing methods to help you uncover the voice of your inner knowing and inner wisdom, connect with your high-vibe self and unleash the voice of your wildest desires. PLUS we have the know-how and experience to create the feel-good action plan to bring your dreams to life.

Previous Barefoot clients have:

- bought their dream home

- joyfully changed careers

- got total clarity on next steps

- made lifelong friends

- committed to (and stuck with!) a plan for improved health, vitality and stamina

- cleared old, self-sabotaging patterns

- created miracles!

Southern California has a magic that has lured truth-seekers, nature lovers, artists, scholars, athletes, free spirits, and innovators for years.

Incorporated in 1888, Oceanside's gorgeous year-round sunshine and gentle ocean breeze has long been a refuge for locals and tourists alike. Featuring great food, world-class surf, art, nightlife, stunning beaches, and friendly locals, this town has the old-school California vibe we all love.

Oceanside is located just short of halfway between San Diego and Los Angeles. Famous as a laid-back beach destination, it offers some of the most beautiful weather (and warmest Pacific Ocean swimming!) in California.

With over two decades of coaching, mentoring and facilitation experience, Sam and Amy will knock your tankini off with their expertise. These women are the perfect blend of spiritual (not too woo), direct (with kindness) and mama bear love. You’ll receive special “love seat” time to receive 1:1 coaching, as well as proven exercises to take your life to the next level.

Collectively, Amy and Sam have facilitated over 85 multi-day retreats, events and workshops in such varied environments as Google, Harvard University, HOW Design Conference, US Naval Medical Center, Wisdom 2.0 as well as a zillion of their own wildly popular private events in places like Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York City, Hawaii, Switzerland, Mexico, Belize, Mallorca, and Crete. 

In addition to the daily workshop time during our trip (featuring our time-tested worksheets, revealing exercises and exclusive processes), Sam and Amy are also offering a BONUS three Coaching Salons (value: $2000) where we can start looking at the deeper questions that will lead us to a better life.

50 is the new 30? Does that mean 62 is the new 48? Is 80 the new 17? 

What does all that mean, exactly?

We live in a time of unprecedented opportunity for women.

And while that’s exciting, it also means that WE DON’T HAVE A MAP for what our life journey could look like from here on out.

We don’t have any model of what the next 10, 20, 50 years or more of our lives are supposed to look like.

Guess what? You get to create whatever the hell you want! But even that freedom can feel overwhelming and confusing.

Amy and Sam are experts at helping smart people get:

- Clarity about what they really want - no "shoulds" allowed

- Insights into what's been holding them back for so long - and the spiritual remedy needed

- Creative Rocket Fuel to change what needs changing - immediately

You’ve paid your dues in full, my dear, and it's time to cash in to create the most epic chapter of your life yet.

Dream and vision with us and a potent circle of women. Commune with your Inner Wisdom and create a plan that's right for YOU.

Who is Barefoot Perfect for?

Barefoot Perfect is for you if…

• You want the ideal mix of lounging, adventure, laughter, and HELLS YES transformation
• You are longing for real talk with authentic, like-minded women
• You want a place where you can tell the truth and let your hair down
• You love to enjoy fresh, delicious food (no dishes to wash!)
• You long to have unstructured time to connect to your Inner Wisdom
• You want to have deep conversations while lounging by the sea (away from your everyday life is where you can really dream!)
• You want to hang out with Amy & Sam, two expert teachers who feel like good girlfriends and will tell you the truth – no matter what
• Your idea of fun is experiencing a trip that you do not have to plan (riiiiight???) that's a perfect combo of togetherness, sunbathing on the beach, solo time, visioning and dreaming what’s next
• You can’t wait to be able to tell people, “What’s up with me? Oh, well….I am going to a private retreat in October…” *hair toss*hair toss*

Barefoot Perfect is NOT for you if:

• You want to sit in silent meditation and drink kale juice and do yoga 18 times per day. Kidding – of course there will be time for you to get your yoga on, take that run, swim, do your thing - but we’re more about walking barefoot on the beach and having drinks with pineapple in them…(we don't care much for deprivation and austerity.)
• You want to stay in another cold, anonymous, hotel conference room all day working hard and never enjoying the destination you’re at and coming home with a pile of notes you'll never look at again (no thank you, we like action and fun!)
• You want guru-like leaders that you worship and who want you to live tweet the event for their followers (yeah….we’re not really into that)

You’ll leave with:

• A feeling of deep rest & soul-level renewal
• A new, deeper self-compassion for your disappointments, embarrassments, and even your “failures”
• A true celebration of what an accomplished, wise, sexy, badass woman you are
• A vision for the next chapter of your life and a custom-made action plan to get you there
• Relationships with women that will become lifelong friends and champions
• AND SO MUCH MORE!

Soul-Restoring Food and Drink

• Come prepared to enjoy delicious, fresh, incredible food and wine.
• You’ll be taken care of and waited on by an impeccable team in our private home.
• And, of course, we will take ALL your dietary needs into account, so that you're well fed with food that makes you feel amazing!

You'll stay in your own, private bedroom with your very en suite bathroom.

No need to bring earplugs to drown out the snoring of your beloved or roommate. This room is just for you! Think casual, luxury, white-sheet therapy with the sound of the ocean lulling you to sleep.

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Why Oceanside?

• We love California!!! And Oceanside is big enough to have the resources we need, but not so big as to be a hassle, you know?
• It’s the ultimate blend of fresh air, saltwater, and modern luxury.
• It’s the ideal location for a combination of ocean time, beach walks, deep inner work, and communing with your new friends.

Why a Private Rental?

• US hotels are often impersonal, expensive, and crowded, while a private rental gives us the warm, fun, "slumber party" vibe we love.
• Our 5-Star rental offers 12 bedrooms and 12 bathrooms along a large stretch of sandy, protected beach, and features a fire pit, a hot tub, two kitchens and stunning sunset views. 
• Having our own "compound" gives us the privacy to do our deep work without interruption, and also to have our private chef prepare our food and snacks. (Oh - did we mention our private chef? Yep. That's just how we roll.) 
• We're also a short walk or Uber ride to plenty of shopping, nightlife, coffeeshops, and other delights.

Why Amy and Sam?

We are bestselling authors, coaches, speakers and no bs mentors with over 35 years of combined coaching, leading, facilitation experience. We are especially passionate about working with powerful women and highly creative people in transition. 

PLUS:

• We have 25 years of friendship (my goodness, how time flies!)
• From “just dreaming” of writing books to becoming traditionally published bestselling authors
• From broke “starving artists” to multi-six figure business owners
• We've walked with each other through the heartaches of life: breakups, divorces, miscarriages, illness and other disasters
• And we've walked with each other during the joys of life: marriages, babies, TV appearances, book deals, awards, rockstar events (that $128k weekend!), multi-six figure online program launches, speaking in front of thousands and so much more

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Can I bring my kids?

A: Nope. This is kid-free experience. (Yep. You’re welcome.) (I mean we love kiddos…Amy’s a mama to two and Sam’s an auntie to two, but it’s time for adults-only conversations that don't get cut off every three minutes, right?)

Q: Can I bring my spouse/partner/friend?

A: If your spouse/partner/friend identifies as a woman, and you don’t mind sharing your bed or bedroom with them, then yes. Contact us for their registration fee (which is a small discount). If you don’t want to share a bed or bedroom, just have your pal register separately.

Q: What's the bedroom situation?

A: Some of the bedrooms are larger than others, so we'll award them on a first-come, first-served basis. Another good reason to register early : )

Q: I'm vegan/gluten-free/paleo/omnivorous/addicted to dark chocolate...can you accommodate my food needs?

A: Yes. We will do everything we can to make sure you have plenty of delicious food, three meals a day. We have some pretty serious food restrictions ourselves, so we totally get it. (And while you may need to practice being a little bit flexible due to the size of our group, one of the advantages of staying in a private house is that you are free to stock your own snacks.)

Q: I'm self-conscious about my body and I don't feel comfortable in a swimsuit...

A: Honey, your body is so beautiful! And we notice that no matter how uncomfortable we might feel in our day-to-day world, once we're floating in the clear blue sea, we start to remember the sanctified beauty of our physical selves. It is our express purpose to have you feeling great no matter what you are wearing. Please do your delightful self a favor and get yourself a new swimsuit that fits, grab your flipflops and prepare to fall in love with your body all over again. She’s your one and only body this time around, might as well love her up!

Q: What if I want to use this as a writing/creative project retreat?

A: Sure. You’ll have unscheduled time each day to do whatever you like. Imagine putting the final touches on your novel or creative project while lounging in the sun. That said, please do plan on being present at all of our workshop sessions.

Q: I identify as non-binary, gender non-conforming, and/or am a trans woman...is this retreat for me?

A: If you identify as a woman, are non-binary or gender non-conforming and feel good about being in circle at a women's retreat, we

What Does My Registration Cover?

Simply get yourself to the house in Oceanside.

We'll take care of the rest!

The Barefoot Perfect: Oceanside retreat price is all-inclusive for your accommodations, excursions, transformative sessions, and most of your meals.

Your registration includes:

• Exclusive custom-designed workshops with Amy & Sam to clear your mind & create your future
• Your own private room. (The bedrooms vary in size and luxury - so to be fair, we're assigning rooms first come, first served.)
• Special Seaside Welcome Reception; 3 sumptuous breakfast buffets; 3 yummy lunches; 2 multi-course dinners with wine and beverages
• Marvelous yet-to-be announced surprises!
• Complimentary wi-fi

**PLUS you also get these AWESOME bonuses**

• We want our circle to connect and deepen long before we meet up in Crete. Let's gather momentum and magic! You'll receive TWO Virtual Group Coaching Salons Sept. and Oct. with Amy and Sam and an amazing circle of women. Three group sessions total. (Value: $2000...yours free!)
• One Post-Retreat Group Coaching Integration Call with Amy & Sam (Value: $500...yours free!)

About Amy Ahlers

Amy Ahlers is an expert women’s leadership coach, keynote speaker, and the bestselling author of two books. Amy is on a mission to STOP women from self-bullying and being hard on themselves so they can make their greatest possible contribution.

After being a top producing sales executive, she entered the world of coaching two decades ago and has touched the lives of over 150k people. She has been a featured keynote speaker on stages at places like Google and Oracle and has appeared on countless TV and radio shows.

Most mornings you’ll find Amy doing a dance party after her coffee and meditation. She resides in the San Francisco Bay Area with her family and rescue mutt.

About Sam Bennett

Originally from Chicago, Samantha Bennett is a beloved writer, speaker, actor, teacher and creativity/productivity specialist. She is the author of the bestselling, “Get It Done: From Procrastination to Creative Genius in 15 Minutes a Day” (New World Library) which Seth Godin called, “An instant classic, essential reading.”

Her second bestseller, “Start Right Where You Are: How Little Changes Can Make a Big Difference for Overwhelmed Procrastinators, Frustrated Overachievers and Recovering Perfectionists” (New World Library) is praised as "a genius guide with timeless advice that makes it easy to follow...fun exercises and creative approach, with one customer noting its just-right touch of sass."

And her latest book, "The 15-Minute Method: The Surprisingly Simple Art of Getting It Done" (New World Library) was short-listed as an Outstanding Work of Literature by BookPals.

Sam has also written the script for the hit musical, “In a Booth at Chasen’s.”

She is an award-winning marketing expert, having spent 15 years as a Personal Branding Specialist for Sam Christensen Studios and been honored as an Ultimate Marketer Finalist at Infusioncon.

Lately she has become a wildly popular instructor on LinkedIn Learning, with over 1.2 million students worldwide.

Application Process

STEP 1: If you're a YES or even a MAYBE, the next step is to simply submit your no-obligation application by JUNE 30th. The application is short, easy and fun. Just filling out the application itself will spark some valuable insights into fabulous you. (And there is a spot where you can tell us if you're "just dreaming" - so don't worry that you'll be pressured to attend if the actual event is out of reach.)

STEP 2: We personally review every application. 
We want to ensure that we take only “perfect fit” women on the Barefoot Perfect: Oceanside adventure. After all, we will be spending 3 days in paradise with you, so we want to make it a phenomenal, life-changing experience for us all. If we have questions, we may reach out to schedule a short, private interview to get to know you better.

STEP 3: If you're accepted, you'll receive an official letter of acceptance. 
And you can move forward immediately reserving your spot. We will also be available to answer any questions you have. (Remember, our retreats sell out quickly, so be sure to reserve your spot with your deposit the moment you're accepted.)

If we don't feel like this retreat is the right fit for you, we will reach out with some suggestions for other best next steps.